why don't we always speak life into people?

NOTICE:this post was supposed to go up on the 9 of June..it's a whole week late..but..hey..does it matter? lolz.. i din't have much to put for now..so i shall entertain u guys wit some of last weeks 'happenings'AND the reason why i blogged bt this isn't to pin point n gossip bt ppl..but to jus let u experience a little bit of how life is for me..almost everyday

yaaay i have a freeee omgosh.. i felt like this whole week was all packed n yadayadayada..

ok so what happened yesterday was that i went for sec play rehearsal and girls can be quite the drama sometimes..

lemme show you few examples

example one:
"omgosh.. now we have to teach J the whole dance..*looks at J* WHY WEREN'T YOU HERE!"

example two:
"okay..stop..i'm going to look at you all dance..and then i'll point out who's doing it all wrong..and embarass them!"

example three:
J:"so..which side do i run in from?"
*:"I DON'T CARE!JUST PICK A SIDE!"

example four:
*:omgosh!..we're going to be in the front middle..and the spotlight's gonna be on us
-several minutes later..after it was announced that J and C were to be in the front middle stage-
*:N!..i told you i'm not ALWAYS in the middle..-huffs n glares in J's direction-"

my gosh.. so drama.. well..guess what.. that all happened..in the course of.. less than an hour of dance practice at school yest.. AND those are just a few of the examples..which i find.. kinda sad and funny..because.. it's sad how girls nowadays have to resort to being really hurtful in their words *oh..i don't mean they were like really rude or anything..but i guess if you were there..n saw the attitude..u kinda wd get me* and it's jus sad.. it's funny only coz.. i really didn't realize that girls are ACTUALLY like that and it's not all hollywood..

yerp.. the words we speak or soooo important.. coz you can't take them back.. i pray i'd be a person who speaks life into others.. that the things which come out of my mouth would be of grace..and pleasing to God.. and that my words.. will not offend others..n wound their spirits..

I know i haven't always been that type of person.. so i wanna take this opportunity to apologize..and ask for forgiveness from some of ya'll.. coz i noe at times I haven't thought before I spoke..and may have hurt you in some way or another.. i'd appreciate if you told me exactly how i did *if i have*.. probably in person/email/call..i would NOT want to recommend commenting abt it here..ehehe but u can let me noe here if i have..without the details..

IT'S THE WEEKEND..n the 'beautiful' game(major tourney mind you)has begun.. anyone wanna teman me to sit in front of a telly and be all.. JUS KICK THE THING INTO THE GOAL LA FOR GOODNESS SAKE!.. xP and all that jazz ..to be continued..

*and so the next time u look at me.. think about what it is..before you arrogate me*